--00000000000032bbda060559fc0e Content-Type: text/plain; charset="UTF-8" Content-Transfer-Encoding: quoted-printable Tim and Joey, Following our conversation today, Shadi crafted this great email template for a team member in LA about complicated family dynamics. Great inspiration for the follow ups we talked about today re: resistance to care. I'm sure this can be adapted! Best, Megan ---------- Forwarded message --------- From: Shadi Gholizadeh Date: Thu, Sep 14, 2023 at 4:20=E2=80=AFPM Subject: Re: Resources To: Christa Chalfa Cc: Megan Heinen , Janette Garcia Moving forward, what about something like this as a template? Dear [Family Member's Name], I wanted to follow up in terms of providing resources to help you navigate some of the complexities of supporting an aging parent and managing the family dynamic. Here are a few resources that might be beneficial: - Books: - "The 36-Hour Day: A Family Guide to Caring for People Who Have Alzheimer Disease, Related Dementias, and Memory Loss" by Nancy L. Mace and Peter V. Rabins. This book is a comprehensive guide offering assistance, advice, and encouragement for caregivers. - - "Coping with Your Difficult Older Parent: A Guide for Stressed Out Children" by Grace Lebow and Barbara Kane. It provides insights into understand= ing and managing complex family dynamics. - - Online Resources: - The Alzheimer=E2=80=99s Association's website (alz.org ) has a plethora of resources, including articles on communication tips= , caregiver health, and more. They also have a helpline available 24/7. - - Our Learning Center also offers several articles and advice pieces on how to manage family communicat= ion and ensure everyone is on the same page concerning care decisions. Families have told me that this one on helping support sibling communication and this one on family caregiver anger have been especially helpful. - - Support Groups: - The Alzheimer=E2=80=99s Association also hosts support groups where f= amily members can share experiences, advice, and coping strategies. It can = be reassuring to hear from others in similar situations. - - Professional Assistance: - There are family therapists (usually someone with an MFT or LCSW degree) who specialize in geriatric care or dementia. They can offer sessions to help families navigate the challenges and develop communication strategies. Aging Life Care Professionals (also called Geriatric Care Managers) can also be helpful in navigating complex family dynamics i= f there is a need for someone to =E2=80=9Cquarterback=E2=80=9D the care= and gently mediate disagreements around care. - - Communication Tips: - Regular family meetings, either in person or via virtual platforms, can ensure that everyone remains updated and on the same page regardi= ng care decisions. - Emphasizing open, non-judgmental communication is key. It's essential to remember that each family member might process and cope differentl= y. Respecting each person's perspective and feelings can make d